The most common sexual fantasies of men and women in the world

Many people who actually have naughty sex fantasies, but they keep it deep. So, compiled from various surveys around the world, here are the types of sexual fantasies that people from various parts of the world often imagine.

What are the most common types of sexual fantasies in the world?

A survey by the University of Montreal published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine compiled a wide variety of sexual fantasies that many men and women have, after interviewing more than 1,500 participants in their average age of 30s regarding their sexual orientation (heterosexual, homosexual, and between) and their fantasy preferences. As a leak, threesome sex aka threesome and sex with a partner are not in the top 1o ranking of the most common sexual fantasies.

In fact, the sexual fantasies that men and women have can be different. Here's the full review.

The most common sex fantasy that men imagine

1. Engage in oral sex. There were more men who fantasized about receiving oral sex from women (87.6%) than those who fantasized about giving oral sex (78%).
2. Threesome sex with two women. 84.5% of men have this sexual fantasy.
3. Sex fantasy with other people you know, but not with your current partner (for example friends, work friends, etc.) owned by 83.4 percent of men.
4. Having sex in an unusual place, for example in an elevator, park, mall park, or office. 82.3% of men harbor this wild imagination.
5. Fantasy of watching two women having sex aka voyeurism owned by 82.1 percent of men.
6. Fantasize about ejaculating outside the woman's body, for example on the face or on her chest. Eighty percent of men crave this.
7. Have sex in romantic places. Nearly more than 78% of men have this fantasy.
8. Daydreaming about giving oral sex to a female partner (78%).
9. Fantasy to give handjob / fingerings in partner (76.4%)
10. Craving sex with more than three women (75.3%)

The most common sex fantasy that women imagine

1. Have sex in romantic places. Nearly more than 84.9% of women often fantasize like this.
2. Having sex in unusual places, for example in an elevator, mall parking lot, or in an office. 81.7% of women harbored this wild imagination.
3. Daydreaming about receiving oral sex from men (78,5%)
4. Fantasy to give blowjob in men. About 72 percent of women have this sexual fantasy.
5. Fantasy to receive fingerings of the partner (71.4%)
6. Fantasy to give handjob / fingerings in partner (68.1%)
7. Sex fantasy with other people you know, but not with your current partner (for example friends, work friends, etc.) owned by 66.3 percent of women.
8. Daydreaming of being dominated by her partner (sex BDSM) owned by 64.6% of women.
9. Craving to have sex in public places, such as public transportation or in the open (such as parks). This exhibitionist trend is owned by 57.3% of women.
10. Craving sex with more than three people, with both men and women (56.5%).

In addition to the top 10 most common sexual fantasies, the study also found that some men and women share fantasies that are slightly unusual to those that tend to be immoral. For example, having sex in a costume of the opposite sex (cross-dressing), ask their sexual partners to have sex with young children (the participants are not pedophiles) or have sex with animals.

Is it normal for me to have sexual fantasies?

Laura Berman, a sex psychologist from the United States, said that there is nothing wrong if someone often fantasizes about sex (Yes, including you!). Sexual fantasies are not a sign of sexual disability or deficiency. This actually signifies a healthy and happy sex life.

This wild and naughty imagination will stimulate the brain to make it easier for us to arouse sexual desires and fulfill our own sexual needs. Studies reveal that people who frequently fantasize about sex have better sexual performance in bed, and even have sex more often. Women who had sexual fantasies reported having more frequent, and perhaps more intense, orgasms during sex than those who did not fantasize about their sex lives.

Even so, there are still clear boundaries that differentiate between normal and unusual sexual fantasies. You don't have to realize your sexual fantasies in the real world. Of course, as long as it is not forced and does not harm other people, your sexual fantasies can be realized.

The danger is when you become obsessed with these fantasies to make them real, that they interfere with your relationship with your partner - or even harm yourself and others.

Psstt… What is your sex fantasy?

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