Table of contents:
- The wrong way of oral sex, but often done by women
- 1. Shame to start first
- 2. Not giving directions
- 3. Biting
- 4. There is no variation
- 5. Only focus on one area
- 6. Too hurried
- 7. You don't enjoy it
If you're bored with that-that's it, you can make oral sex an alternative to making out with your partner. At first glance, the method of oral sex seems easy - sucking the penis in the mouth and playing with the tongue. Eits, wait a minute. Unexpectedly, there are a number of mistakes women may make during oral sex, especially for the first time. Not only will this make the two of you less comfortable, it will also make your new experience less sweet as it seems.
The wrong way of oral sex, but often done by women
1. Shame to start first
Many women are shy about starting sex for fear of being perceived as aggressive by their partners. Yet the reality is not like that. Reluctance to take the initiative can actually prevent men from getting satisfaction.
If this is your first time, it's a good idea to talk to your partner first if you want to try it. After that, don't hesitate to start teasing her first. It could be that he even feels challenged when you move first.
2. Not giving directions
Vice versa. If it is your turn to receive oral-vaginal sex from your partner, try to be open about what you want and don't want about the technique he is playing with.
Don't even think that a man can read your mind without you telling him to. Men are not psychics and they also need your direction. However, directing is not forcing, you know!
By knowing what to do and what maneuvers can take you to fly to the seventh sky, the he will feel more confident and you can reach the climax that you have been wanting.
3. Biting
Although some men like the sensation of a bite, you should consider it twice before doing it. The reason is, the genital area is a very sensitive organ. If you're not careful, you could injure your penis and put you at risk of infection.
That's why, both men and women, never bite or use your teeth during oral sex unless your partner asks for it and likes it. To avoid excess friction between the teeth and the skin of the penis, try using a lubricant during oral sex.
4. There is no variation
Most of the ways of oral sex are only concerned with the same technique and position. Of course, there's nothing wrong with that. However, to really bring your partner to climax, you have to be smart about trying out different techniques and maneuvers, either with your mouth or your hands during oral sex. You can even combine the two.
Not only that, changing your position during oral sex, whether it's lying down, sitting, standing, or kneeling can create new sensations that are more enjoyable and exciting.
When you finally find out what your partner really likes, then it's okay to do it over and over again to spice up your sex story.
5. Only focus on one area
You may think that licking or hairy, the shaft of the penis alone will make him writhe violently. In fact, men's sensitive points do not only lie in one part. That is why, if you give oral sex to a man, you must dare to explore.
In fact, the most sensitive part of the penis, at least in the circumcised penis, is on the head of the penis underneath the circumcision area. You can put the tip in your mouth, then fork for a while, take it out and put it back in again. Not only that, you can also play on both testicles. For some men, stimulation of the testicles can immediately trigger an orgasm.
6. Too hurried
During oral sex, don't be too hasty to suck your partner's penis. Start by kissing your partner on the lips and then move slowly to the base of the neck, behind the ears, shoulders, and nipples which are very sensitive and relaxed. Then, slowly explore the abdomen to the groin area to the penis.
If this is your first time, you shouldn't just "gobble" the penis straight up into your throat. This will choke you and possibly trigger your gag reflex. Pull tug first with your partner to further build passion. Give pause between "serves" by moving to another area temporarily, then return to the business below.
7. You don't enjoy it
You may want to make your partner happy. However, if you don't like to have oral sex, then don't do it. As simple as that. Remember, you are under no obligation to provide oral sex. But if you do it, do it because you want to, not because you feel like you have to.
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