Table of contents:
- 1. Just like drug addiction
- 2. Make "drunk"
- 3. Red cheeks, cold sweat, and a fast heartbeat
- 4. Dilated pupils
- 5. You may feel a little unwell
- 6. You will have "super powers"
- 7. If it's a woman, your voice tone is higher
- 8. Broken heart can make your heart hurt
- 9. You can gain weight
- 10. If you get married, you can live a longer and healthier life
- 11. Men's bones will be stronger
- 12. Your creativity will be on fire
- 13. Falling in love relieves chronic pain
Every human being must have felt in love, at least once in a lifetime. But did you know that there are actually many reactions in your body when you are in love? Not only heart palpitations and make us sweat cold when we are with people that make us "forget the world", but there are also some other reactions, even that make us feel like "stupid people" (even if only temporarily).
What happens to our bodies when we fall in love involves more chemical and hormonal reactions. As reported Health and Compass , there are several studies that prove what the reactions that occur in our bodies while being romantically drunk, as you can see below:
1. Just like drug addiction
Based on a study conducted in 2010 at Rutgers University Researchers have revealed that the sensation of falling in love is similar to a drug addiction that releases euphoria.
The brain releases chemicals such as dopamine, oxytocin, adrenaline and vasopressin. A clinical sexologist and marriage therapist Kat Van Kirk, PhD. says the chemicals are released through different interactions and helps you get closer to your partner. Like medicine, the more time you spend with the people you fall in love with, the more "addicted" you will be.
2. Make "drunk"
Based on the research conducted University of Birmingham , the more oxytocin aka "love hormone", the effect will be the same as when you drink a lot wine , get drunk, and act weird. The researchers conducted a study on the effects of oxytocin and alcohol, and although the effects were different on the brain, the results would be the same.
3. Red cheeks, cold sweat, and a fast heartbeat
Before the date starts, you may notice that your heartbeat will beat faster and your hands will sweat a lot. Not just nervousness, but it's actually an effect of stimulating adrenaline and norepinephrine, says Dr. Kirk. "It will cause a physical sensation and a desire to focus your attention on the person you fall in love with," she said.
4. Dilated pupils
When your attention is on someone, there is stimulation taking place in your sympathetic vascular system, which causes your pupils to dilate, says Dr. Kirk.
5. You may feel a little unwell
When you meet new people and catch your eye, you may lose your appetite and feel unwell. But that's what your body wants to say if you really like the person you fall in love with. Dr. Kirk said, usually this feeling of discomfort will disappear as your relationship with your partner progresses.
6. You will have "super powers"
Have you ever heard the story of a mother who panicked lifting a car to save her child who was trapped underneath? The combination of love and fear can give a person superpowers that suddenly emerge in a pinch, although research is still difficult to prove. This "super" power can also happen to people who fall in love.
"The oxytocin that your system releases when you fall in love can actually increase your tolerance for physical pain," says Dr. Kirk.
7. If it's a woman, your voice tone is higher
When you are in love, then move to the next stage and begin to commit, you may begin to notice that your voice will be higher. Based on studies published in Journal of Evolutionary Psychology Researchers found that when women talk to men, they are more physically attracted to them, and their voices will be higher and more feminine.
8. Broken heart can make your heart hurt
Based on American Heart Association research, you can die from a broken heart. Scientifically, this is a result of cardiomyopathy that is triggered by stress, and it can strike even the healthiest of people when their stress hormones are overwhelming during emotional events such as the death of a partner, divorce, or even a breakup.
The symptoms of cardiomyopathy resemble a heart attack, including shortness of breath, unusual heartbeat, and chest pain. While broken heart syndrome can cause permanent damage to the heart, and in rare cases it can even lead to death, the good news is that many cases can be resolved and can be completely cured within a few weeks.
9. You can gain weight
In 2012 in a review in Journal of Obesity , the researchers found that couples who gain weight during courtship usually go on to marry. Even when in a relationship, both men and women will usually eat more. Even newly married women gain 12 kg in weight in the first 5 years after marriage.
10. If you get married, you can live a longer and healthier life
Based on a study conducted by Duke University Medical Center, those who entered the age of 40 years of marriage had a lower risk of premature death than those who were divorced or never married.
Another study from NYU Langone Medical Center in New York found that men and women who are married have stronger hearts than those who have never been married. Men usually have stronger hearts than their wives, with a 5% lower risk of vascular disease, according to research.
11. Men's bones will be stronger
If you fall in love and then get into a relationship, the UCLA study found that men whose relationships are stable or who marry after the age of 25 usually have stronger bones. But the study caught that this could happen only when the man found a woman who was supportive.
12. Your creativity will be on fire
A 2015 study was published Journal of Family Issues found that when you are in a relationship your creativity is sparked. Why?
Researchers conclude that many people who are initiating a relationship will focus on their long-term goals. Another meaning, when you are in love, your brain will allow you to dream and imagine more.
13. Falling in love relieves chronic pain
It may sound like a miracle, but being in a relationship with someone can be a treatment to reduce chronic pain, according to a 2010 study by the Stanford University School of Medicine. Researchers say falling in intense love has the same effect as a painkiller in the area. brain. Doctors are optimistic that love will help reduce pain, although more research may be needed.