Sex mistakes in your 30s that should be avoided

Entering the age of head 3, there will be many changes in the body related to aging symptoms that can affect your stamina in bed. Not to mention that it is added to the busy daily activities that are very time-consuming, starting from office work, household matters, and taking care of children.

All the twists and turns of life can make your intimate relationship with your partner may not always go smoothly. So, so that the bed can always be so hot, there is a secret: avoid these “beginner” mistakes when having sex in your 30s.

Don't repeat this mistake while having sex in your 30s

1. Want to finish quickly

As you get older, you may tend to prioritize sex over other things that are considered more meaningful.

Once you have made love, you want to hurry up with the bed game tonight because you are already tired after the day's activities. Don't even use foreplay and just nag; just take off your clothes then penetrate and go to sleep

It's different from when you were (younger) when you and your partner were still filled with curiosity and eager to explore each other's bodies. In fact, that's the secret to keeping sex in your 30s fantastic and vibrant.

If you are both busy, it's best to schedule sex and agree on that free time just for making out. When you are both in bed, enjoy the moment every minute as an inexpensive way to relieve stress. Slowly explore every inch of your partner's body to let him know you value and love him or her.

2. Fear when you don't feel excited anymore

Daily stress that drains energy coupled with the inevitable symptoms of aging can make sex drive decreased.

In fact, your passion and your partner may never "fit" again. You're excited, but he's lethargic. All these things can eventually lead to the absence of sex which makes the bed even more "dusty". No wonder so many couples who only have sex 1-2 times a year.

Fluctuating passionate love is actually natural and still easy to trick. For example, by chatting about sex or living up to a sexual fantasy that you have been keeping deep.

Don't forget to also make sex a part of your daily routine, at least get used to it 1-2 times a week. This is so that your sex drive is aroused due to training, so that your sex life is still burning!

3. Don't take sex seriously

Even though it has become a routine agenda, you shouldn't be too serious when making love. For example, because they want to have children quickly, they are afraid that their sexual desire will disappear over time, and because they are uncomfortable refusing their partner who wants to make love.

Do sex in your 30s in a relaxed, calm, relaxed manner, joking with joyful laughter with your partner so that this routine feels more enjoyable.

Making love is a natural need of every human being, so there is no need to be too serious or forced to do it.

4. Don't focus too much on your orgasm

Orgasm is a mystery to every woman. Even so, that does not mean it is impossible for women not to have an orgasm. Most women mistakenly think that orgasm must be done through penile penetration.

Eits, better try another way, namely through the clitoris. During sex, ask your partner to play with your clitoris. This organ that has more than 8000 nerve points should not be forgotten when making love.

Do it slowly, you can also practice following the tips on how to achieve clitoral orgasm. Then most importantly, you have to relax while knowing which body parts can make your blood rush when in bed.

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