Table of contents:
- The characteristics of a person who is lying
- 1. The eye doesn't stop moving
- 2. The direction of the eye is always to the right
- 3. Her smile is fake
- 4. Flushed face, sweating, biting your lips, taking a deep breath
- 5. Restless body movements
- The above characteristics are not absolute signs
Maybe you know the TV series Lie To Me, about a seasoned professor who can tell which people are really honest or those who are hiding something, just by catching a glimpse of a change in facial expression, whether it's a frown or a smile.
Of course detecting lies is not as fast and easy as on TV, especially for ordinary people. However, faking emotions is something that is very difficult. Perhaps it is a result of inner conflict, the body wants to say one thing, while the heart and subconscious mind try to force the body to say another.
The characteristics of a person who is lying
There are some basic clues to knowing when someone is lying to you, both from facial expressions and body movements, but not all of these characteristics apply to everyone.
If you ask the person you are talking to a question, and he answers in a manner that he did not display during your conversation, you can be sure that he is probably lying. What are the indicators of the facial expression of the person who is lying?
1. The eye doesn't stop moving
Eyeballs that are busy looking around looking around, blinking more frequently than usual (in normal situations, a person usually blinks 5-6 times per minute or once per 10-12 seconds), or closing the eyes for more than one second at a time are three signs the classic eye of a lying person. It's a physiological stress reaction that she feels uncomfortable with, or doesn't want to answer your question.
Blinking infrequently can also be a sign that he is deliberately trying to control his eye movements. For example, a poker player may appear to blink less frequently so that he seems unaffected by the results of his shuffling. But remember, these eye movements can also appear to the other person for a completely different reason. For example, people with Parkinson's disease will have a slower rate of blinking than healthy people, whereas those with schizophrenia tend to blink faster.
2. The direction of the eye is always to the right
When you ask the other person about something he witnessed, heard, or tried to dig up his memory, if the person focuses his gaze to the left, then he is more likely to be telling the truth. He was actually accessing his memory about the incident. When lying, someone will tend to glance to the right. That is, he is accessing his imagination to create an answer.
However, left-handed people will usually show the opposite reaction as a spontaneous response. Additionally, some people will stare straight ahead when trying to recall visual memory.
3. Her smile is fake
You may think that a smile can easily disguise your true feelings, but the slightest expression on a liar's face will reveal what he's really thinking - whether he realizes it or not. When someone smiles sincerely, the skin around their eyes will cluster and wrinkle. Fake smile only on the mouth.
Also, watch for a sneer, condescending to one corner of the lip curling upwards. Among liars, this lopsided smile may signal arrogance that they managed to hide something you didn't know about: sarcasm and cynicism.
However, a lopsided smile may also mean that the person is feeling genuinely happy or optimistic.
4. Flushed face, sweating, biting your lips, taking a deep breath
You may be able to see someone lying through the sudden red tinge that appears on their cheeks, as anxiety can cause people to blush, and sweat drops may appear on their forehead, cheeks, or the back of their neck. The person may try to wipe off the sweat repeatedly.
Blushing, sighing, and sweating are forced reflexes caused by the sympathetic nervous system (this activates your fight-or-flight response) and is a response to the release of adrenaline.
5. Restless body movements
Certain chemical reactions are believed to cause people's faces to itch when they lie. Therefore, in general, people who are lying will tend to touch their face more often. But it is more important to examine a person's overall attitude, not just from a single sign, because there is no one precise trait that absolutely indicates someone is lying.
Crossing your arms over your chest can indicate a defensive, protective attitude. Crossing your legs away from you may indicate his displeasure or discomfort in your presence - presenting yourself as small in front of you as possible. Liars also often hide their hands behind their backs to cover up finger gnashing which can indicate anxiety.
The above characteristics are not absolute signs
The aforementioned gestures can also indicate nervousness, frustration, or an introverted person who just wants to be alone in their personal zone. If you are just busy observing their gestures and facial expressions, you won't even pay attention to what they say, and you may even forget to factor in credibility into account. Remember, some people can act nervous — especially when questioned by the police — even if they were telling the truth.