Table of contents:
- What is meant by selfish?
- The characteristics of a selfish partner in bed
- 1. Your partner is not concerned with your sexual satisfaction
- 2. Do not want to do the same
- 3. You have never been kissed during sex
- 4. Rarely do romantic things
- 5. Reluctant to have sex positions that satisfy your partner
One of the characteristics of a selfish partner is willing to win alone in bed affairs. Many feel a dilemma between mental pressure, sexual desire and existing affection. But calm down first, to further strengthen your confidence and heart about whether your lover is a selfish partner or not about sex, it's good to consider the characteristics below.
What is meant by selfish?
According to Dr. Gracie Landes, a sex therapist in New York, selfishness is a situation in which a person shows little concern for others and does not want to know what other people need or want.
When it comes to the bed, it's natural that every now and then everyone feels tired, and goes to sleep immediately after reaching orgasm. However, if this happens a lot, chances are that your partner has little understanding and sympathy for you, or more or less he is indeed one of the characteristics of a selfish partner.
The characteristics of a selfish partner in bed
1. Your partner is not concerned with your sexual satisfaction
When it comes to your bed, both of you should be equally satisfied. But if a person is selfish, he will only seek his own sexual satisfaction and pleasure. Then, how satisfied with you? According to him, it is not important, the important thing is that sexual relations have been carried out to complete their desires.
2. Do not want to do the same
When your partner frequently asks for massages or for help with masturbation but never does the same for you, this could be a sign that he is being selfish. Your partner will try to find reasons why he can't do it. Finally, you can only fulfill his request without ever having yours.
3. You have never been kissed during sex
Who hasn't been kissed during sex? Kissing during sex can create an intimacy connected to the level of ultimate pleasure. If your partner rarely does this, even refuses when you try to kiss him, then you can be sure that your partner doesn't care about the intimacy between the two of you.
4. Rarely do romantic things
Predictably, one of the characteristics of a partner who is selfish when it comes to sex is not romantic. Apart from the absence of the intimate kissing described above, he also makes no effort to make a physical or emotional connection with you. One example of romantic things that your partner can do, for example, by massaging tenderly, giving compliments, stroking your hair, kissing your neck on your own initiative.
5. Reluctant to have sex positions that satisfy your partner
If your partner prefers a sex position where he doesn't have to bother, or wants to be in a safe position to have a quick orgasm, it could be that your partner is simply selfish in bed. That's a clear sign, if he really is selfish and just want you to try to satisfy him.
