Table of contents:
- The wrong way to satisfy a wife during sex
- 1. Don't warm up just yet
- 2. Ask when you reach climax
- 3. Apologize for orgasm first
- 4. Change positions when the partner starts responding
- 5. Fear of doing anything new
- 6. Regarding sigh = satisfaction
Almost every man feels very confident that he can satisfy his partner in bed. In fact, this is not always the case. Various studies say only about 25 percent of women who succeed in climaxing every time they have sex. Hmmm… This dissatisfaction could be the reason why the he continues to refuse to have sex with you. Remember, sex is a fun activity when both parties are equally satisfied - not just the man alone. In the end, sex also affects household permanence. So, let's, especially for husbands, immediately abandon the various ways to satisfy the following clearly wrong wives.
The wrong way to satisfy a wife during sex
1. Don't warm up just yet
Most people think that sex is a spontaneous activity: take off your clothes, penetrate, orgasm, put on your clothes again. Eits, wait a minute. This assumption is actually dangerous, you know!
In a way, sex is a sport. Before exercising, you need to warm up first so that your body is better prepared and prevent injury, right? So it is with sex. The warm-up round before sex is called foreplay. This is useful for helping women to be aroused and aroused, which is generally characterized by a "wet" vagina.
Penetration of the penis directly into a dry vagina can cause pain during sex, and the vagina may even bleed. This is certainly not the way to satisfy the ideal wife. What is there, he might give up for the next round.
Average heating time is idealat least 15 minutes so that the wife is really aroused and ready to have sex. In fact, the longer the husband and wife spend foreplay, the orgasm that both of them will experience will be more stable because their bodies are both ready.
Psstt… There are many foreplay techniques that you can practice to seduce your wife.
2. Ask when you reach climax
Maybe you mean well when you ask, "Have you reached the climax, haven't you?" in the heat of a sex session. You may be worried that she won't be able to orgasm when you are just about to "come out", want to climax together, or want to make sure your serve is satisfactory.
Even so, the question will only destroy the wife's interest. Many women have never had an orgasm before, so sometimes there is fear and anxiety that haunts you when you welcome what you have never felt before. The same anxiety can also make a woman feel very worried about her body condition and physical appearance - "can't I orgasm because something is wrong with my body?" This anxiety can prevent her from reaching orgasm. In fact, to be able to achieve the desired orgasm, relaxation is the solution.
Finally, your partner can't help but lie and the game will stop before he reaches a climax. Really very disappointing, right? In fact, it can ruin your partner's expectations of a satisfying sex session.
Instead of worrying and making sure your wife has to be able to orgasm, take advantage of the time you spend together in bed to strengthen the bond and intimacy between you. Say words of praise or give it a touch more where your partner likes it.
3. Apologize for orgasm first
Apologizing is a good thing. However, apologizing just because you walked out first will only kill your wife's passion. This is the same as you feel guilty and intend to end the game while it's still at its hottest.
Who orgasms first doesn't really matter. You can still continue sex in other ways to satisfy your wife. For example, by oral sex or stimulating the clitoris with hand games. Remember, sex is an activity that involves both parties so that they are both satisfied.
4. Change positions when the partner starts responding
Most men act as game controllers in bed. However, that doesn't mean you can change your strategy at will in the middle of the round. Especially if your partner has just shown a response.
You can see the satisfaction of your partner from the expression on his face. It never hurts to occasionally ask "Is this delicious?" "Continue?" or "What if I'm like this?". If your partner really likes your game, then continue with your technique. Changing the game when the partner starts to respond can kill the satisfaction of the partner.
5. Fear of doing anything new
Routines can feel very boring. Likewise with the same sex positions and techniques. So, there's nothing wrong with trying something new. For example, if the two of you only have sex in bed, occasionally try to shower together while making love in the bathroom. If you're feeling adventurous, try car sex. Or the occasional try of quick sex without undressing.
Likewise with the sex position which is always the missionary standard. There are many challenging sex positions that you can try, but remember to always discuss with your partner whether he wants to try it. If so, also pay attention to the response shown by your partner. If your partner likes it, then move on. Do not continue if your partner shows the opposite response.
Trying something new isn't wrong. In fact, it will strengthen your portfolio and experience on how to satisfy your wife.
6. Regarding sigh = satisfaction
It is wrong to judge your partner's satisfaction from the moaning or sighing sound they make. Not that sighing is a sign that a woman is having an orgasm. The sigh that comes out of his mouth can mean a lot.
Maybe he really enjoys what you are doing, it might also indicate that your partner feels uncomfortable and wants you to change the game through the code. Others admit to sighing just to please their partner.
So, make sure to always communicate with him even during sex. Ask him, "Is this position comfortable for you?" "Do you want me to keep doing this?" "Does this hurt?" That way, you'll know what his sigh really means.
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